Intimate times.....

Over the last weeks, I have learned that having a good relationship with my spouse may be reflected in our physical intimacy, but that is more symptomatic than causation. I thoroughly enjoyed the Johnson's "centers" and I think they reflect the aforementioned thought to boot! So, with that in mind, one aspect that Charity and I have struggled with (OK, I have struggled in leading!) is intimate (non-physically intimate) time together. My questions are this. What kind of things does anyone do to spark conversational intimacy? What do you do (uh....within reason I ask that question.....)? Where do you go? Where do you want to go? On a personal note (for me), what ways do you celebrate date night?